Talking About: People and their opinions

 Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and even though we know you have one we don't always wanna hear it. I feel like anyone who is on the outside looking in on a situation should get ALL of the facts before jumping to a conclusion and giving an opinion on something you have very little facts about. If some one did the same to you you would be upset AND don't be so quick to criticize when you don't have it all together your damn self. "judge lest ye be judged" and that came straight from god himself. Its a damn shame for someone to not be able to talk to someone out of fear that they'll be judged. People will always criticize what the do not understand but instead of judging, get the whole story, and try to be of some help. there is a huge difference between:

"Mmmm you should be doing..."

and

"Maybe you should try a different approach"

Another thing, don't try to mask being a judgmental asshole as "telling what they need to hear" It is not the same thing.