Talking About: Liars

     Anytime i enter into any kind of relationship with anyone i let them know this one thing upfront: I don't ask much, all I do ask is that you DON'T LIE TO ME!! Don't sugar coat nothing and don't try to save my feelings. I am a big girl and I don't need nobody keeping nothing from me. When you lie to me, you've made the decision for me whether or not I choose to accept whatever information you were going to give me. Once I found out you lied its and automatic rejection.

For example:

       My ex wanted to go to a club, which I would have been okay with but instead of telling me that's where he was going he lied and said he was going to his sisters. I needed to ask him something that night and i called his cell phone, I couldn't reach him so I called his sisters house. She told me that he had went to the club with her boyfriend. Now had he just asked me if it was okay i would've said yes, who am I to kill your fun. So when I asked him why he lied he said:

"I knew you would have a problem with it so i just decided to keep it from you so you would'nt get upset"

    My only response to that is.....How did that work out for you. Not only am I now mad, I don't trust you. If you will lie about something small, you will lie about something big. A liar is a liar in my book and that is never good to be labeled a liar.

    Now there is a reason to this rant. Do not look me in my face and tell me one thing if you really mean another thing. If you don't want to be with me don't act like you want to be with me just because you don't wanna hurt my feelings, because when it comes out (and it always does) I am going to be mad. Not only did you waste my time, you made the decision for me whether or not I want to waste my time on you. like Who do you think you are?